Sometimes when you says something out of love, although the intention is good, but it still can ruin the person.
Effort that you made all this while, can turn in to zero or worst become negative with just a few words.
Although the intention is good, but the recipient need to start all over again to climb the mountain.
Words kill or build.
Realize that speaker should not be the one to be blame, because recipient have the choice of how to interpret the message.
Just that recipient need to take extra effort to change the perception. Recipient have the responsibility and choice. Not always is the victimized.
Don't always point finger on others of what others do to you or cause you become like that.
You have the choice of how to process the information, is either you allow the words to kill you, or the words to build you.
Recipient - you have the choice.
